Hello world. The following was written 01/08/2016.
Contemplating a sayings I grew up hearing, “You can pick, your friends. But you cannot pick, your family.”
Guess what? I call BULLSHIT!
Holy Spirit and my Guides state, “You get to pick, who your family will be. Each and every one of you, get to pick who you want to have as your family. Anytime you choose a Spouse or Life Partner, you are choosing who your family will be, in that moment. This Being, is your Choice! Key here is understanding your other family’s opinions and judgments about this Being, mean absolutely nothing. When push comes to shove, they no longer matter. They are not, paying your bills or putting a roof over our head any longer. You are no longer answerable to them, for anything, for any reason.
So why continue listening, to their vitriol? Why continue giving credence, to the garbage they believe to be true? You are capable of looking within yourself, to find what it is you hold forth as Truth. You have a choice. YOU, HAVE A CHOICE. The choice is yours. THE CHOICE, IS YOURS! You choose, what you want to believe in. You choose, what you will place your faith in. You choose, who YOUR family will be.
In the end, no one’s thoughts or opinions will matter, except your own. You are the one, who has to live with your choices. So why give someone else the power to dictate, who you are going to spend your life with? Why allow someone else to dictate, what you do and when you do it? Why continue blindly following and believing in, everything you were brainwashed to accept? You are taught to believe, blood is the tie which binds you, as a family. Yet, they never asked how many people in the world, have their same blood type?!? Are you also related to all of them, as well?”
This is a conversation I am having, with Holy Spirit and my Guides. These are Their corrections to me, about this angst my family has been going through. Holy Spirit and my Guides are reminding me again, it is THEIRS. It is whatever they are holding forth, as being true and of value, which is causing them the pain and misery they are experiencing. They are doing it all to themselves, with their judgements. The more they try to shame, guilt, blame, control and manipulate, the more they will suffer. They do it all, to themselves. It eats away at them, from within. Killing their bodies, one cell at a time. No one is doing this, to them. They do it all, to themselves.
Holy Spirit and my Guides state, “You have shared your Truths and they refuse, to hear or see them. Each judgment, instantly responds with splintering pain and suffering. Karma, is now on speed dial. In standing in Their Truth and Light, I am Healed. Healed, of all diseases. Do I really want to slide back into, the pain and suffering I have been so shortly released from? Do I want sickness, death and suffering everyday?”
No, NO and NO!
Holy Spirit and my Guides state, “Then do not take on, your family’s beliefs as your own. Let them keep, their beliefs. Let them have, the creation of Hell they have made for themselves. You have shown them your Truth, as I have shown you. It is their choice, to continue to believe what they do. Each Path, is valid. You have each, made your choice. Be at ease, with this.”
But I do not want them to continue suffering.
Holy Spirit and my Guides state, “YOU do not have a choice, in this. It is their choice, to believe as they do. You cannot drag them, into the Light. They must come, willingly. Until they do, you must allow and accept their choices. You do not need to take them in, as yours though. This would not be conducive, to right minded thinking or loving. For in doing so, you hurt not only you, but them as well, in the instant they are no longer afforded, your Light. You have instead hidden your Light, within their darkness, from yourself. Is this, what you would do?”
No.
Holy Spirit and my Guides state, “Then be at ease and allow them, their beliefs. Do not withhold your love, from them. For it is now, they will need it most. Love them, from a distance. There is no need for you, to stand there taking a beating, for what they are choosing to believe.”
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.
It would seem you’re just venting about your broken family my father and I had a relationship that lasted till the day he died that day I lost my father and my best friend everything he taught and showed me made me want to follow in his ways he was a glorious upstanding god-fearing man. And I love my mom just the same although she left us early to go do some work for God. Why do you seem to be having so much trouble letting go of your past was the trauma that terrible. I was nurtured in a loving caring giving family. Maybe in today’s society broken homes and broken children are the norm. But in my day family time was the best time of all.
You are allowed to judge as you choose and believe as you so choose. The article is not a venting of a broken home. It is a recognition one chooses whom their family will be for them. Notice your judgments and preconceived notions things should be this way or that way and everyone is given a life like yours with love and support.
My life’s journey is very different from yours. Mine was filled with death, mental, emotional, physical and sexual abuses, by my family, neighbors and the church. My own family was killing me, raping me and beating me into submission. What I share is the journey I went through with the lessons I learned through them. Judge not that which you do not comprehend.
By the way, in your rush to judge that which was shared, you failed to recognize the dialogue is a channeling of the conversation I was having with Holy Spirit and my Guides. I AM a Clear Open Trans Channel. I did not “choose” to become one. I placed myself in Holy Spirits hands to use me as He would. Channeling is how He uses me.