Hello world. The following was written 11/02/2015.
Something to consider, the words that lift one up can also be used to tear one down. Seeking out the opinions or judgments of another to validate you creates a viscous cycle in a belief of unworthiness. If they do not validate you, you are unworthy to be seen or heard by them. All hinges on the purview of someone else approving of who you are and choose to be.
Hearing words such as, You are wonderful, You are strong, I believe in you, I have faith in you, You are a wonderful leader, and You are so capable. As much as these words may lift one up which they do. When does one start realizing the judgments and opinions of others are no more than a way for us to continually punish ourselves?
Seeking out the approval of another does no more than hand away your own power and control. We are taught to seek out these judgments and then to give them as well. The judgments and opinions of others do not define who or what you are. Only you may define you.
Why are you allowing someone else’s beliefs to dictate who you will be in this life? Just because they say it and think it, does not mean it is the Truth. Question everything and ask Holy Spirit or Higher Self are they really talking about me or are they just showing me what they really think of themselves?
I guarantee you the Truth is, that is what they think and believe about themselves. When we judge another we only judge ourselves. So why keep seeking out an opinion, when inside you know God has made you perfect in every way? All those opinions do is cause one to doubt their own abilities and self worth. You are worthy. You are loved. It is the simplest of Truths. Will you accept that as your own?
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.