Hello world. The following was written 11/09/2015.
True communication in a relationship, requires sharing honestly and authentically from the heart, holding nothing back without fear of retribution or judgment. It requires accepting each other exactly as you are, when you are, without judging each other. It requires supporting and listening to each other, as you share from your hearts. It requires recognizing how you each, have a different way of viewing “your” world. It requires each of you accepting responsibility for your choices to think, say, do, believe so be, then accepting each other as equals without judgment.
You are allowed to see as you see, feel as you feel and think as you think. Until you decide to choose differently for you. They are allowed to see as they see, feel as they feel and think as they think. Until they decide to choose differently for themselves. Each of you must accept responsibility for yourselves, for what you think, feel and experience. You learn to accept them, by accepting yourself as you are. When you stop judging yourself, you stop judging them. This is when you are ready to join together as equals.
In joining together, you achieve the ability to walk together as One Being, with One mind, heart and Spirit. A melding of hearts, minds and Souls shift from an I, Me to We, Us. Each understanding what they choose effects their partner, so communication is needed with honesty and authenticity. Though they think similarly, believe similarly, they may choose differently from their partner. Even though they have joined together to be One Being, they are still Individual Beings responsible only for themselves and what they are choosing for themselves.
When one comes to the understanding they are responsible for themselves, what they are experiencing and perceiving, one begins to see the world they had previously perceived, is illusory. Everything they believed in, was a judgment taught to them. They are taught, they are responsible for whatever is happening to those around them. Taught they are, to fix and save the world. Taught they are to fix and save others. There is no fixing or saving the world. You cannot fix or save anyone, but yourself.
All we may do is look within ourselves and change our minds about what it is we choose to believe. In letting go our judgments we see nothing has happened and all is perfect. In this way we change our minds and the world we see changes with it. As we choose to change, the world changes with us. True communication in a relationship requires one to accept responsibility for themselves. True communication in a relationship is required.
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.