Hello world. The following was written 5/23/2017.
My brothers share their tribulations at being judged for everything they think, say and do while also judging those judging them for the exact same things. It is a vicious cycle being repeated on a subconscious level most are not aware of. Most have not stopped to ask themselves where these beliefs have come from or why it is they have chosen to accept them for themselves. All they know is fear is the catalyst driving them to respond as they do.
A brother shares, “Don’t show friendliness to strangers, especially by words, it’s harmful for you, for your self-respect. People do not trust each other, misunderstanding is sure to occur. They insult you if you don’t behave properly like a good stranger.”
My response, “Something to consider, is YOU seem to be holding onto a lot of judgments about what is or is not supposed to be happening to you and around you. How everyone and everything are supposed to be, including yourself.
As our brother has stated, “there are no strangers.” Every single Being on this planet is connected one unto the other. The only thing which separates us are our minds and the thoughts or beliefs we are choosing to hold. An example I am being given to use would be your hand. Your hand is part of your body. Yet your hand is considered to be a separate part or portion of your body and not the body in its entirety. In this same way each Being is a part or portion of God. Do you judge your hand to be your foot? Why judge your brother then to be what they are not?
Something else being pointed out is you are choosing to believe in whatever judgments and opinions being handed to you. When another is acting or treating you in what YOU DEEM to be an unkindly way you are accepting what they are saying or doing in those moments as being true. This acceptance is what has been and is causing you so much pain and conflict within you.
Consider looking at these things I am sharing with you. How you are making an active choice here to believe in the judgments and opinions of others? How you are choosing to react to how another is acting or reacting to whatever is happening? How you are choosing to be offended or insulted by whatever is being said or done? A belief is being held someone else should be conforming to YOUR dictates and beliefs as you have been made to conform to someone else’s dictates and beliefs.
You and all of your brothers are caught up in a cycle of controlled manipulations passed on from one generation to the next without pause and without anyone stopping to question what they were being taught. The tools used to keep these things in play are the pain and suffering constantly being dished out and upon you by everyone and everything around you. We are taught to live in abject terror of being judged in any way. For we learned quickly as children how the judgments being handed to us always lead to physical, mental, and emotional pain and suffering until we choose to conform to the dictates being handed to us.
This experience you are having here is for your benefit brother. It is opening your eyes to a Truth you have not looked at. It is being brought before you again and again in myriad ways so you may see it from every angle and in every fashion it chooses to dress itself in. In looking at it you may recognize it in any given moment within yourself and your brothers and see the Truth of where they are in the moment on their journey. How, like you, they were taught to think and believe and never questioned what was being said and done.
Look within your own heart and mind at the choices you have been making about every experience you have had. Be willing to see when and where you chose to judge it or accept a judgment about it. When you do so you will see how to heal and let go of what you have been taught to think and believe. Ask God above to show the Truth of what you are doing and you will be shown.
I cannot do the inner work needed for you. No one can do YOUR inner work for you. You must be willing to do this for yourself. What you “judge” as generalized is in Truth just how simple it is. When I would look at any one of the experiences I have had throughout my life with God and ask what the Truth was of that experience, I would be shown exactly what I did and was thinking and believing in those moments. I would be shown my misperceptions and the corrections to them. Every rape, molestation, beating, exorcism, caning, mental and emotional abuse was shown to me when I asked. Every one was and has been covered in judgments made by myself and those handing those judgments to me.”
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.