Hello world. The following was written 7/14/2016.
Every reaction is a powerful reaction. The only differences between them, are the judgments you place on them. In everything, it is and will always be your choices to judge, which will separate you from your brothers. Because your judgment, is the WALL which stands between you. When one is not authentic they judge. They hide in fear of being judged for anything and everything. They fight, argue and defend themselves and everyone around them because they are judging. They also assume everyone is attacking them, judging them, and trying to hurt them, because of their judgments.
All dialogue, even vitriolic dialogue, is of benefit. It brings to the surface those things we hide from ourselves, about what we truly believe in. As I read everyone’s posts, I see the judgments being handed out and the assumptions being made. I see the “game” as you call it, being played.
None of this is a game to me. When I started thinking about suicide and ways to do it, it stopped being a game. Shit got pretty real, very fast. I understood, if I wanted my pain and suffering to stop, I had to not just want the change. I had to be willing to make the change too.
According to the dictionary rape is an act of forcing ones will on another in a “sexual” way. What Holy Spirit and my Guides are telling me, is rape is a whole hell of a lot more than just the sexual aspect it is being defined as. Rape is not just about the “sex”.
Rape is an act of forcing ones will on another. Holy Spirit and My Guides state Manipulation, is a form of rape. Mental abuse, is a form of rape. Emotional abuse, is a form of rape. Judgments, are a form of rape. In all of these, one is forcing their will on another. Dictating what another may or may not say, do, think, be, believe and feel.
Every time you believe in the judgments of another, you are telling them they are allowed to rape you. Every time you place another on a pedestal, you are judging them as being better than you. You are blinding yourself to the Truth, of who they truly are. In those moments, you are accepting their authority over you. You have handed your power, over to them. The moment you choose to believe the judgment, you agree to being raped by them on a Spiritual level. Rape does not have to be, a physical act.
When one considers these aspects of the idea of rape, one begins to question their own thoughts and actions towards themselves and their brothers more deeply. To recognize their judgments are what is hurting them and the world.
The only way to Unity is through Unconditional Love and Support of one another, without judgments. To see how each of us are equal in every way. There is no right or wrong, good or bad, Holy or Evil. They are not possible, because everything we experience IS for our benefit and the worlds benefit. It is our judgments of it, which is in need of correction here.
Consider again, these judgments you have hidden within the questions you pose to your brother. Consider again, your defense of yourself and others, in any way. Consider again, your need to be right and make others wrong. Consider this, just because you believe in it, it does not make it true. When you judge, you are raping yourself, your brothers and everyone around you.
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.