Hello world. The following was written 12/09/2017.
A brother asks, “If we are souls. Why are we doing this. Why is everybody so scared of death…..we will come back anyways they say……so why pain…. suffering…..etc etc?”
My response, “What is the purpose of going to school? Consider that and you will have an answer as to why we come here. We come here to learn. This manifestation of reality would be a school of experience in extremes. We come in with a blank slate and have to relearn who we are. We are here to learn the discernment of Truth, of what resonates within as our Truth.
As for why you are afraid of death, it is what you have chosen to believe in. The belief is taught and it is based in fear of the unknown. It is a choice made by the Individual to believe. I myself am not afraid of death. I have died and been resuscitated many many times in my life. From birth, a year on up into my 40’s. I learned long ago death is not real. Everything I had been taught about it was not true. My life did not end there. Each time I was given a choice to continue on here or move on to another life. It was always my choice and there was never an END. There was only a continuation of experience.
As I stated in the above, ALL the pain and suffering you experience comes from your own choices to believe. When you hold a belief as defining you, you are also holding onto a judgment that was handed to you or taught to you. Consider the thoughts racing through your mind in any given moment. How many are labels and how many have judgments or opinions embedded into them? Those thoughts and your ability to “see” them for what they are will be the key to the Kingdom within you. Once you unlock the understanding of those thoughts and beliefs, you will be handed an opportunity to choose again and choose differently this time.
Everything rests on you and your willingness to look within at what YOU are doing. You seem focused on the world outside of you and the choices your brothers are making to be as they choose. Their choices have nothing to do with you. Their choices are theirs alone to make and you do not get a say in what it is they are choosing for themselves. They do not get a say or choice in what you are choosing for you. This constant focus on those around you and their choices is what keeps you locked in that cage you have built in your own mind.”
A brother asks, “I have a question to ask of you: I have a couple of male ACIM friends that are always posting something about women in general in a sexual nature and i think it’s wrong. Why do they do this? Why do they think it’s okay?”
My response, “Hello brother. First I would ask you to look at what you have stated here. Take a few moments to reread it and then come back to here.
In these moments you are having a reaction to something another is doing. What it states is YOU are holding a misconception. If I am upset or angry in any way, I am the one who is misconceiving. I am the one who is in judgment in those moments and need to look within my own heart and mind at my choices to believe.
Your brothers do these things because it is what they were taught to do. This is what guys are supposed to do and it will get them male approval. Your brothers have not started to question those things they were taught to believe, say and do. They blindly repeat a pattern taught to them and never questioned it. This is why they do these things and believe it is alright and does no harm.
Brother let go your beliefs there are rights and wrongs. There are only experiences and how we are choosing to perceive them for OURSELVES. We are not able to perceive our brothers choices to experience in the moments they are experiencing them. It is not until after they have had the experience and share what was experienced with us we may be given an opportunity to perceive things from their point of view and reference.
In these moments your reactions to your brothers posts point to misconceptions held by you from before you ever met those brothers. It was something you learned, so was taught to you. That would mean you chose to accept that judgment as being true for you. Consider looking at that thought and belief and following it back to its roots. Follow it back into your past to the moment you first heard it and learned it. It will be in those moments you will see the Truth and be able to let go those beliefs and accept what is True in it’s place.”
My brother responds, “So if this is what they were taught isn’t that what they are teaching?”
My response, “Something to consider, what they do is subconscious. They may not even be aware of what it is they are doing. Similar to how you are not aware of the judgments you are holding in regards to what they are doing.
Blessings to you on your journey to healing brother. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.”
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.