Hello world. The following was written 11/11/2015.
Something to consider, we are taught from the cradle to conform to the dictates of others. Taught we are to judge and be judged. Taught to seek out the judgments of others, then enact them on ourselves. We are taught, if we speak about whatever we may be thinking, feeling, believing and experiencing it is wrong or bad. Taught we need to seek professional help and take a pill.
The Truth is, you are allowed to think what you think, feel what you feel, believe what you believe and experience what you experience. No one has the right to tell you anything different. Because no one can ever know what it is you are really experiencing inside of you.
Humanity as a whole, holds the belief they know what is best for those around them. This simply is not true. You cannot know what it is another is experiencing, supposed to experience or what lessons they are here to learn. Especially if you are not willing to listen to hear them share, where they are at on their journeys.
Allow your brothers to express themselves and whatever it is they are experiencing inside of them, without judging them for it. Be willing to listen to HEAR them, keeping your mouth shut and not responding while they pour out their hearts. It is the advice and opinions you give which is causing your brother to feel as if they are not being heard. It is those judgmental comments which cause your brother to feel they are better off gone. It is those judgmental comments which have them considering suicide as an option. It is these judgmental comments which tell your brother, no matter what they do, they are a burden, because you cannot accept them as they are.
If Humanity would stop judging and actually listen to what it is a brother is saying from the heart, there would be a huge wave of healing and understanding. For all of us have considered the option of suicide. All of us have considered suicide, as a possibility of escaping the pain and suffering we experience. We deny we have considered suicide as an option, out of fear of being judged as weak and less than Human.
Accept and allow your brothers to express themselves without judgments, and no one will continue to consider suicide or death as an option. Allowance and acceptance without judgments, allows them to simply be as they are, hear them. This is what our brothers are asking for. Someone to hear where they are at, without judging them. Without telling them what they think they need to do, to fix things. Listen to hear and not respond.
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.