Hello world. The following was written 8/23/2018.
Yesterday my Husband Alex wrote an article about friend requests and the content displayed or lack there of on their pages. One of the responses he received was targeted at me and our relationship. To which I found myself responding. Today my Husband has had someone else come at him telling him he needs to leave me. Seriously!? What the hell is up with these people trying destroy someone’s relationship, all for control and to be their “teacher”? How far are their egos willing to go to control a brother?
Alex shares, “For those sending me friend requests. Please have a real profile picture and please speak or at least read English. If all of your posts are in a different language then I will not accept your friend request. For the women (and some men) please be aware that I am happily married and I have no interest in anything more than an open friendship. That means no private conversations on messenger. If you do message me on messenger please be aware that I share everything with my wife so don’t say it if you wouldn’t want her to see it. No BOTS! Fill out your profile and do something that helps me to understand that you are a real person and not another Facebook bot. Be interactive, don’t be like 1,000 of my 1,300 friends that never say a word or even react to a post. If you are one of those 1,000 friends then please be more interactive or I will be clearing out my inactive friends. Thanks.”
A brother responds, “ I know very well that ur wife is so possessive of ur fucking aas.. You have lot of ego… Kill it or it will kill ur mind and soul”
My response, “Looks like someone is projecting. I do not posses my Husband for he is NOT property. I accept and allow him to be and express himself as he so chooses. Our relationship is built on the foundations of authenticity, honesty and complete openness with each other on ALL levels of being. We hide nothing from each other. We share all we experience and go through. We turn to each other for support and balance. We do not seek out there in others for that which we are to get and give from one another within this Holy Relationship we have. We view each other as EQUALS in EVERY way. We recognize what effects one effects the other. We have learned to work as one unit in harmony with each other. Can you state the same, or do you still look down upon the opposite sex as nothing but chattel?
By the way, what you despise of me is the fact that I am a Psychic Intuitive Empath and see through your false facades and masks to the Truth of who you are and what you do. You are a pretender. You pretend to be that which you are not. You are not a teacher, but a con artist pretending to be the guru to gain more followers. All in a guise to pick their pockets for whatever money you may siphon from them in the guise of helping them learn on their journey. You are a fraud, a pretender of the worst kind, for you prey upon those who have not yet learned to discern Truth from Lie.”
Alex responds, “It’s all good he unfriended me. I think he did us both a favor.”
Today my Husband was faced with another brother choosing to attack his relationship with me.
A brother states, “Alex Reyenga I wish you could step outside yourself (and your wife’s hypnotic influence over you) to see you are coming from a place of deep paranoia. I’m sad for you Alex. You think you’re immune to the traps your own mind has set for you.
That’s the NATURE OF THE MIND, Alex. IT PROJECTS, it doesn’t SEE. Seriously, how are you missing this????? We can’t perceive what has no reference point inside our own minds. We contain what we are seeing. That’s the whole basis of ACIM. Your wife is committed to specialness, her there’s little hope for.”
All of this is coming from a being who has refused to read anything I have shared on my wall about my journey. Instead they choose to judge and try to destroy another’s relationship. These two are not the first nor will they be the last to try and drive a judgmental wedge between a couple. Their motto being divide and conquer. What is truly interesting is how they refuse to face me so target my Husband and his relationship with me.
How far are their egos willing to go to control a brother? Apparently as far as they have to in order to get what it is they think they want. Even if what they do would lead to the destruction of another. They have no care what they do is detrimental to their brothers and to themselves. Their choice to blindly follow and believe what was taught to them, has them beating their brothers into submission with the materials they have chosen to believe in. In order for what they believe to become real and true everyone must believe in it too.
They have no understanding they repeat the patterns taught to them. They hold no comprehension as to how they propagate the Lies they have chosen to believe. They seek out the easily led and tear them down little by little. Playing on their fears and need to people please as they were taught to do. They use their minds against them to control and manipulate them into a willing subjugation to the dictates of who and what they are to be.
My brothers have chosen to propagate the egoistic patterns their teachers taught them without questioning if what they were choosing to believe in was True or not. When faced with a brother who has Conviction and Knowing what they are holding forth is Truth and has been proven to them as being Truth by Holy Spirit, they resort to name calling and projecting their judgmental beliefs frantically to silence the Truth they do not want to see. Their cognitive dissonance knows no boundaries in its bid to gain control and stop the Light from shining in.
My brothers are experiencing cognitive dissonance when they see their brothers in a relationship built on a strong foundation of authenticity, honesty, trust, respect, equality, acceptance, allowance and Love. They envy that which another has and would destroy it for that very reason. Their very lack of authenticity, honesty and integrity with themselves is what is lacking in their relationships. If they cannot be honest with themselves, how could they ever be honest with their brothers? It is not possible.
Everything starts within with YOU the Individual. You have to make a choice and decide what you desire more. What is of value to you and why? Why are you believing what you do? How do you know what you are choosing to believe in is the Truth? How has this been proven True for you? Can you share a personal experience which has shown you this is the Truth? Are you able to share openly and honestly yet, all you have experienced without fear of being judged?
Consider what it is you have experienced and how you are terrified to let any one else know of it. You are trapped in a belief another’s judgments will define who you are. You are terrified to be different and to choose your own way. You are terrified to stand in your own Light of Truth for you still have no understanding of what the Truth really is. You have not questioned it yet. When you do, and you will do so, you will understand fully all YOU have done to you and how you are the one responsible for all you believed and thought you had perceived your reality to be. What you are dealing with is your own fear of taking responsibility for your own choices to believe without questioning.
How far are their egos willing to go to control a brother? Pretty damn far. They will even KILL to get what they want which is your complete subjugation. How do you stop their antics? Stand in your Light of Truth with Conviction and a willingness to share how it has been proven True for you through your own personal experiences and the lessons you have learned from them. Share without fear of being judged. For their lack of understanding shows you were they are on their journeys.
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.