Hello world. The following was written 11/11/2015.
Something to consider, we are taught from the cradle to conform to the dictates of others. Taught we are to judge and be judged. We are to seek out these judgments from those around us and enact them on ourselves as if they are absolutely true. We are told and taught, to speak up about whatever we may be thinking, feeling, believing and experiencing is wrong, bad, and we need to just stop it or go seek professional help and take a pill.
The absolute Truth is you are allowed to think what you think, feel what you feel, believe what you believe and experience what you experience. No one has the right to tell you anything different. Because no one can ever know what it is you are really experiencing inside of you.
Humanity as a whole, holds a belief they know what is best for those around them. This simply is not true. You cannot know what it is another is believing in or experiencing. Especially if you are not willing to listen to hear them share where they are at on their journeys.
Allow your brothers to express themselves and whatever it is they are experiencing inside of them without judging them for it. Be willing to listen to HEAR them, keeping your mouth shut and not responding while they pour out their hearts. It is the advice and opinions you give that is causing your brother to feel as if they are not being heard. It is those judgmental comments that cause your brother to feel they are better off gone. No matter what they do they are a burden because you cannot accept them as they are.
If Humanity would stop talking and actually start to listen to what it is a brother is saying from the heart, there would be a huge wave of healing and understanding. For all of us have considered that option. All of us have considered suicide as a possibility of escaping the pain and suffering we experience. Yet we deny that we have, for fear of being judged as weak and less than Human.
Accept and allow your brothers to express themselves without judgment and no one will continue to consider death as an option. Allow and accept without judging. Allow them to simply be as they are, hear them. That is all they have been asking for, is someone to just hear them and where they are without telling them what they think they need to do to fix things. Be willing to listen to hear and not respond.
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.