Hello world. The following was written 4/29/2015. Most people can wrap their minds around the concept and understanding when you have children and someone wants to start a relationship with you, your children are and will be part of the relationship. If the person seeking this connection will not accept your children then they are not going to accept you either. In those situations most will walk away. They recognize acceptance of all aspects of themselves and their lives must be accepted or there is no chance for complete unity. It really seems like a no brainer. If you do not accept my children then you do not accept me. Now consider your relationship with your spouse or life partner. When you join in union with another you are telling the Universe you are now committing to become one Being. One Being with one heart and one mind. The single goal to love and support each other unconditionally no matter the circumstances you may go through. To place the relationship at the top of all friendships old and new. Understanding what effects you also effects the companion you share your life with. Whatever the struggle you are not alone for Continue Reading
A Miracle Spark.
Hello world. The following was written 4/29/2015. The following conversation speaks of the shame and guilt we are taught to believe in when things happen to us. A brother shares, “Today I learned the difference between a pedophile and a child molester. Acceptance of pedophiles can help them to never act on their ideas so never become molesters. Having to hide and be ashamed is not helpful. I would never touch a child but I have had little girls show up in my sexual fantasies before. I was the little girl. Hahahahaha I am for a world where telling the truth is acceptable.” My response, “Thank you for sharing where you are brother. There is no need for shame, guilt or fear. I understand what it is you share. There is something that happens when one is touched at a young age an little to no pain is felt. I myself have experienced this. I recognized I enjoyed what I was experiencing in the moment. I was not ashamed or afraid until it was taught to me to be so. I had no understanding what was done was bad, wrong, sinful or that I “should” feel shame, guilt, and fear Continue Reading
Acceptance
Hello world. The following was written in the late 90’s and shared online 4/29/2013. Acceptance Broken and battered, falling apart. Not even sure of where to start. Should I start with my broken bones? Or should I start with my broken home? A small little child precious and caring. Pushed aside for even daring. To obtain some affection. A measure of love. Feeling unwanted, lost, and alone. Looking for love in walls of stone. Giving freely of the body. Not understanding they are Somebody. Thinking by giving they shall receive. When all they get are more injuries. Some to their bodies. Some to their minds. Some to the souls. They leave behind. They don’t seem to realize it is a trend. They keep repeating over again. Looking for love in all the wrong places. Seeing a sea of swimming faces. Locked deep inside is the love that they need. For when I love myself, then someone else can love me. Sabrina Reyenga Until I could love myself Unconditionally brother, I could not love anyone else. As long as I was in judgment of myself I was in judgment of my brothers. I have found on this journey one must learn Continue Reading