Hello world. The following was written 7/20/2017. A brother had shared a post about security. I was guided to respond to them which started a whole new conversation which is for another post I think. Back to this post… I started reading the commentaries and began to recognize how differently people view the word security. That each person held a different meaning for it. I posted the following on that brothers post and was guided to share it with all of you. Let us shed some Light on words and the meanings we have chosen to give them. I responded with the following… My response, “Something to consider here my brothers is that words are but symbols of symbols and will only have the meaning and value you have chosen to give them. This word security seems to have different meanings for each of you. If this is the case, then I ask you what meaning have you given this word, security? What does security mean for you? Please share what security means for you so that all may understand how differently it can be viewed. Let me start this out with my understanding of security. Security for me is Continue Reading
Relationships and Trust, their words and actions show their intent.
Hello world. The following was written 7/20/2015. Had a situation come up were the Hubby’s Ex’s started coming out of the wood work. They would start in with private messages and then move into wanting to meet up secretly. Say how they wanted to be friends with me his wife and yet would never reach out to me for that friendship. When conflict would arise they would make suggestions of meeting up or coming over as long as I am not there. How the light begins to dawn when he realizes they were never being honest in what they wanted. How they were looking for someone to save them from themselves and it did not matter who it was they would be hurting in doing so. When does trust fall away? When we recognize our trust has been betrayed. What qualifies as a betrayal? Whatever we “perceive” of another’s failures. Failure to provide. Failure to perceive that we should come first in any relationship between Beings. Failure to forgive. Failure to agree. Failure to love unconditionally. Seeing their willingness to walk away from everything together you have made. A home and life built on fantasies and dreams. All crumbles with Continue Reading